Margot Miller – The Upgrade

If you’ve ever felt like you were chasing goals that didn’t quite fit – or living a life that looks good on the outside but feels empty on the inside – this phase will show you why.

Old souls are born into intense families, cultures, and societies. To stay safe, they learn to survive by becoming someone else: the caretaker, the overachiever, the peacekeeper, the good girl.

These roles help you gain approval and avoid abandonment – but they also become a mask. A costume. A character you’ve been playing for so long that you’ve forgotten who you actually are.

In this phase, we help you unlearn those survival identities and reconnect with your authentic self. We explore the three core survival experiences most old souls face – chronic health issues, toxic relationships, and addiction – and show you how they’ve been unconsciously protecting you from being seen, from stepping into your power, and from becoming the version of you who gets everything she wants.